WISDOM IS BUILT ON TIME STAGES. The reason to life.
In my lonely hours I search for the meaning of life in general, and more so since I lost my sweetheart Beryl. I say `lost` though I feel she will always be locked in my heart which then makes her position more of a permanent companion in everything I do; Just like it always was when her `physical` body was by my side.
So in my continuing search I'm finding that all my vast experiences from birth, of which most have been seriously impeding to furthering any advancement to happiness, bettering life’s opportunities that always seem to entail climbing a greasy pole with one arm tied behind ones back :O(
Those Elderly people out there who are feeling the wrath of life that seems to point to the `general` thoughts of those who've not yet got to this stage in life; that `twilight years` means diminished status !
My idea to start to build a web site intended to bring together ALL the wisdom out there that's being lost through this `stigma` of age. Also the many various hobbies that are set aside because of the resounding cry, " What's the point if I'm trapped in this solitary cage" ?
Have your say here and feel you can be not only heard, but listened to. You are no longer invisible and victim to discrimination. People are treated fairly with respect and dignity here.
Your are not forgotten for the years of sacrifice and emotional distress you contributed to the World in the fight to rid us all of tyranny and bring about peace after World war 2. Then to continue even more stress by having to endure poverty and `rationing`. When we hear that yearly cry, " We will remember them" . My response is, " Remember the relations of those who gave too" ! But not just once a year !
Elderly residents in communities
In my vast experiences in life it's become more obvious that Elderly People are transparent from 70 and invisible from 80 ! This is a fact in any authority, though the inland revenue seem to be exempt; Then again, come to think more deeply, those who have a financial interest in this subject of the Elderly, can reserve a place on the ladder of gain without the need to show compassion or respect.
My idea to start to build a web site intended to bring together ALL the wisdom out there that's being lost through this `stigma` of age, was born after the loss of my sweet wife a year previous. ( 2013 ) Many various hobbies that are set aside because of the resounding cry, " What's the point if I'm trapped in this solitary cage" ? Can now be revitalised through the gathering of the elderly community along with much more assistance in the fight against discrimination and shocking treatment of human rights. The Elderly Mentally Impaired vulnerable souls are one of my battles to force quality care is still being pursued which is likened to `Mission impossible`. I may not win the war, but I'll certainly win some battles !
My web site is dedicated for those in need to have your say their say and feel you can be not only heard, but listened to. You are no longer invisible and victim to discrimination. People are treated fairly with respect and dignity here.
The word ,`Lonely`, depicts an emotional response to a vast array of experiences that's well known to any living being, be it Human or Animal which I re name as `Social Pain`.
But the Word, `Alone`, isolated from others, is far more reaching. But in the situation of the early stages of bereavement then it changes its meaning to `solitude`. We all need solitude at various stages in our lives to recharge. Sleep is the Natural gift but only if your Mind is calm as you close your eyes. Otherwise your chance of solitude and recharge is lost. To control the brain, which is only a muscle, you have to understand that the `Mind` is You, the Soul.
Mind over matter is exactly what it says on the tin !
As time goes by the deep sad feeling of bereavement will never leave you if the person you lost was, and still is, a pillar of love. You don't need to dwell on trying to forget the past wonderful years you spent together, but you do need to forget that awful moment they gave up their struggle in a damaged body; So as you close your eyes keep in mind that they are no longer suffering bodily pain and that you did everything possible for their well-being whilst here on Earth. But they are still existing in Soul and still attached to you, so for you to be now suffering and tormented by the sad memories ( Which they are the cause ) It stands to reason that your thoughts are reflecting on them, so their suffering is being continued because they would never have given you cause for such pain in `Life`.
I discovered that my Loved one is locked inside my heart where my Soul resides after a whole year of misery and alone.
I chat to her most of the day, especially when in solitude. My solitude has been a blessing in disguise. Never lonely, though always alone.
I've found that if I spend my time helping others, which by the way has always been the way that both my sweet Wife and I have always lived, never selfish. But now I'm devoted again to continue as before.
Over the past few years, when I was deep in the Black hole of “ The long goodbye” I found the world of technology could take me out of the real world into the wonderful Virtual World where I could write down all my pain and hide it in an archive which seemed to stop me compiling Hurt inside my head. I started studying the use of Home Computers. I then expanded my scope into Virtual Flight and also Virtual Sailing, to of my Long stored away dreams that I could never hope to bring to fruition in the real world. I now run an international Virtual Sailing club every night of the week at 1930 hrs. I also intend to find time to open Flight simulator . FSX, to fly in a virtual Airline with many types of planes... NOT war planes.... I'm speaking here about mixing with Mature adults, not `gamers`. I say this because my sessions are designed for serious activities that can't in anyway be called `Games`. Mine are a way of life and outlets for many like minded people who have the need to retire for a few hours a week from the real world of Business and Family pressures. I design all the Sailing Courses and also re paint Boats for those who can't.
But my other venture is why this Web Site here was decided upon. Bring together all those folk in the community who are in need of assistance in any way that I or any other person I know can help, which is a large group internationally.
The politicians will always be planning our doom, But my aim is to be a Shield against Gloom.
I also discovered I could write a kind of poetry on any subject, but mostly my emotional experiences in the `Care` situation along the way. I hope all those other folk who link up with us here can post their own works too.
Painting in oils or water colours and also wood work amongst many more hobbies are welcome here. Give it a go and stand up straight again.
I appeal for anyone who can be an advicate to help any one who needs to navigate their way through the minefield of `opaque` authorities.
In my lonely hours I search for the meaning of life in general, and more so since I lost my sweetheart Beryl. I say `lost` though I feel she will always be locked in my heart which then makes her position more of a permanent companion in everything I do; Just like it always was when her `physical` body was by my side.
So in my continuing search I'm finding that all my vast experiences from birth, of which most have been seriously impeding to furthering any advancement to happiness, bettering life’s opportunities that always seem to entail climbing a greasy pole with one arm tied behind ones back :O(
Those Elderly people out there who are feeling the wrath of life that seems to point to the `general` thoughts of those who've not yet got to this stage in life; that `twilight years` means diminished status !
My idea to start to build a web site intended to bring together ALL the wisdom out there that's being lost through this `stigma` of age. Also the many various hobbies that are set aside because of the resounding cry, " What's the point if I'm trapped in this solitary cage" ?
Have your say here and feel you can be not only heard, but listened to. You are no longer invisible and victim to discrimination. People are treated fairly with respect and dignity here.
Your are not forgotten for the years of sacrifice and emotional distress you contributed to the World in the fight to rid us all of tyranny and bring about peace after World war 2. Then to continue even more stress by having to endure poverty and `rationing`. When we hear that yearly cry, " We will remember them" . My response is, " Remember the relations of those who gave too" ! But not just once a year !
Elderly residents in communities
In my vast experiences in life it's become more obvious that Elderly People are transparent from 70 and invisible from 80 ! This is a fact in any authority, though the inland revenue seem to be exempt; Then again, come to think more deeply, those who have a financial interest in this subject of the Elderly, can reserve a place on the ladder of gain without the need to show compassion or respect.
My idea to start to build a web site intended to bring together ALL the wisdom out there that's being lost through this `stigma` of age, was born after the loss of my sweet wife a year previous. ( 2013 ) Many various hobbies that are set aside because of the resounding cry, " What's the point if I'm trapped in this solitary cage" ? Can now be revitalised through the gathering of the elderly community along with much more assistance in the fight against discrimination and shocking treatment of human rights. The Elderly Mentally Impaired vulnerable souls are one of my battles to force quality care is still being pursued which is likened to `Mission impossible`. I may not win the war, but I'll certainly win some battles !
My web site is dedicated for those in need to have your say their say and feel you can be not only heard, but listened to. You are no longer invisible and victim to discrimination. People are treated fairly with respect and dignity here.
The word ,`Lonely`, depicts an emotional response to a vast array of experiences that's well known to any living being, be it Human or Animal which I re name as `Social Pain`.
But the Word, `Alone`, isolated from others, is far more reaching. But in the situation of the early stages of bereavement then it changes its meaning to `solitude`. We all need solitude at various stages in our lives to recharge. Sleep is the Natural gift but only if your Mind is calm as you close your eyes. Otherwise your chance of solitude and recharge is lost. To control the brain, which is only a muscle, you have to understand that the `Mind` is You, the Soul.
Mind over matter is exactly what it says on the tin !
As time goes by the deep sad feeling of bereavement will never leave you if the person you lost was, and still is, a pillar of love. You don't need to dwell on trying to forget the past wonderful years you spent together, but you do need to forget that awful moment they gave up their struggle in a damaged body; So as you close your eyes keep in mind that they are no longer suffering bodily pain and that you did everything possible for their well-being whilst here on Earth. But they are still existing in Soul and still attached to you, so for you to be now suffering and tormented by the sad memories ( Which they are the cause ) It stands to reason that your thoughts are reflecting on them, so their suffering is being continued because they would never have given you cause for such pain in `Life`.
I discovered that my Loved one is locked inside my heart where my Soul resides after a whole year of misery and alone.
I chat to her most of the day, especially when in solitude. My solitude has been a blessing in disguise. Never lonely, though always alone.
I've found that if I spend my time helping others, which by the way has always been the way that both my sweet Wife and I have always lived, never selfish. But now I'm devoted again to continue as before.
Over the past few years, when I was deep in the Black hole of “ The long goodbye” I found the world of technology could take me out of the real world into the wonderful Virtual World where I could write down all my pain and hide it in an archive which seemed to stop me compiling Hurt inside my head. I started studying the use of Home Computers. I then expanded my scope into Virtual Flight and also Virtual Sailing, to of my Long stored away dreams that I could never hope to bring to fruition in the real world. I now run an international Virtual Sailing club every night of the week at 1930 hrs. I also intend to find time to open Flight simulator . FSX, to fly in a virtual Airline with many types of planes... NOT war planes.... I'm speaking here about mixing with Mature adults, not `gamers`. I say this because my sessions are designed for serious activities that can't in anyway be called `Games`. Mine are a way of life and outlets for many like minded people who have the need to retire for a few hours a week from the real world of Business and Family pressures. I design all the Sailing Courses and also re paint Boats for those who can't.
But my other venture is why this Web Site here was decided upon. Bring together all those folk in the community who are in need of assistance in any way that I or any other person I know can help, which is a large group internationally.
The politicians will always be planning our doom, But my aim is to be a Shield against Gloom.
I also discovered I could write a kind of poetry on any subject, but mostly my emotional experiences in the `Care` situation along the way. I hope all those other folk who link up with us here can post their own works too.
Painting in oils or water colours and also wood work amongst many more hobbies are welcome here. Give it a go and stand up straight again.
I appeal for anyone who can be an advicate to help any one who needs to navigate their way through the minefield of `opaque` authorities.